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Forgive and forget is better than holding a grudge which causes unhappiness

Live life as if today is your last day!

A few weeks ago, I accidentally met 3 of my high school teachers (on different days) when I was out. 2 of them, I said Hi and talked for a bit but for this 1 teacher, I pretended as if I didn't see her. I really despise her because of things that happened before.

And.. it has been 3 years since that happened, and I still hate her until now; I do feel like taking a bat, beat her up when I saw her a few weeks ago :giggle:

Well, let's act like an adult here. 3 years are such a long period. What do I get for holding such grudge? Nothing much.. well apart from feeling HAPPY when shits happen to her lol - sorry, I just can't help it :XD:
I don't even keep track of her, whether she's alive or not; I don't give a damn :P

So, that got me thinking...
What if I want to start new? Too bad there's no restart button to delete my past, getting rid of the bitter memories.
But what I can do is, get over it. Forgive those people and move on even if they don't apologies to me.

What's the use of remembering the past when it would only make me feel like I'd like to kill someone? Isn't that mean, I've wasted my time, instead of feeling good about my life, I had to think of ways to return the favors to get over the grudge?

The main thing here is.. why the heck should I think about the person that I hate the most?

Thus, with that being said, if you did something that made me feel offended, I forgive you :P

And I apologies, sincerely from the bottom of my heart if I ever do something wrong to you; either through my words, writings or action, I'm really sorry about it.

p/s: It feels good after forgiving people, and letting go of the bad stuffs :)


Adila

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I've hated some people and although I forgive them for their actions, I never forget them because to forget is to not learn. How can one become a better person if the actions are forgotten. But I agree, forgiving and just being happy is most certainly the way forward :)

A great piece as always! You do some great typography! :thumbsup:

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In the first place I thought he was praying, but after reading I understood !
Very good typography
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Thanks :D typography is such a good way to reflect our lives :XD: :giggle:

It's easier to forgive people but never to pretend as it never happen. Hopefully we're not repeating their actions as getting ourself hurt, it is always the best way of learning things in life :XD:

But, what pissed me off the most is, some people just don't realise what they did to other people. That would make it hard to simply forgive that person... GAHH!!!

Sometimes I do wonder.. what if we don't have any emotions? It might be better, isn't it? I mean.. even if someone is being nasty, you won't feel a thing and just move on :XD: Such a productive life! :giggle:

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:giggle: thanks :D
I wasn't sure myself of how to make it look like.. it's a kind of asking for forgiveness pose :XD:

It is a praying pose, but then, isn't when we talk to God, we ask for His forgiveness as well? :)

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:iconbabynuke:
I rarely hold a grudge, I tend to just get depressed or not give a damn about a certain person...

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..you simply ignore that person eyh?
it's a good thing that you rarely hold a grudge :D

I easily hold grudge against people; it's such a bad habit! :( it's either I pay them back :giggle: or I let go of it.. after a few years :XD:

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:iconfederer4ever:
yes exactly !
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:iconluudy:
yer...bgus kakjoy,...pemaaf rupenye... pasni buleh ler messing wit kakjoy...hahahah pastu mintak maap...:lol:

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owh itu smalam
hari ni rasa nak tarik balik la kemaafan itu HAHAHAHAHAAH :giggle:

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